Tips for Success

 

As our children grow toward independence the need to stay connected with family, role models, and friends changes but doesn't end. We, as adults, need to find ways to stay connected and yet nurture their growth and maturity. This is not a task for the weak or faint of heart.

  • Give them a hug and remind them that you love them, we all need to hear that frequently.

  • Have at least one meal a day together as frequently as possible.

  • Keep in touch with teachers, even when your student(s) are in high school. Talk to them about the classes they are taking, current assignments, school activities, etc.

  • Find out what your student(s) are interested in and support them (but don't arrange things for them, that's part of the learning process).

  • Model soft skills and give your students opportunity to practice them. Those skills will greatly aid them in the world of work. For a list of soft skills see pulldown "Soft Skills" under "Parents Place".

  • Teach them how to shake hands, including a gentle but firm grip.

  • Provide them with encouragement and room to grow. Be prepared for setbacks because they will happen.

  • Allow them to experience natural consequences of their choices; don't give in to the temptation to "fix" things for them. Those lessons are easier to learn and typically have less dire results when experienced at a younger age.

  • College is not for every student, but post high school education is. What are the education requirements for their career choice? If you have youth that is not sure what they want to do, have them check out: www.bls.gov/oco/.  For more information see pulldown "Why Career Exploration?" under "Parents Place".

  • Encourage career exploration. Most school districts in Yakima County use our program. See pulldown "Why Career Exploration?" under "Parents Place" for more information.

  • Volunteering is another excellent way to learn about a career and give back to our community.

  • Help them establish an "Independence Plan", transitioning from being dependent on parents/guardians into self reliance. Include post high school education, as well as transportation, selecting living arrangements and all that goes with that.